Really in need of help!!!

[mdawn21]

Someone PLEASE HELP ME! I've been so confused lately!!!

Me & my husband have been ttc for about 2 months now, I was suppose to ovulate on the 20th (Thursday) of December, so we had inter course on that Friday & Saturday, then again on Tuesday & Wednesday. Last period was dec. 3rd, was suppose to start, jan. 4th. (Have a 31 day cycle) so my periods go from 4, 3, 4, 3, 4.
Any way, I'm 4 days late, took a hcg yesterday & it was bfn! The past 2 days my breast have been so sore, heavy, & very swollen, like they've been a little hard, my veins on my chest are getting alot more noticeable, & I'm starting to see little white dots on areola... Is there still hope that I could be pregnant? Just hcg level isn't high enough yet??

[pokeyAC]

Are you saying you had sex before you ovulated or after?  If you are 4 days late, it's possible you could be pregnant!  Good luck!

[mdawn21]

Was suppose to ovulate December 20th, which was on a Thursday, we had sex Friday(14) & Saturday(15), skipped Sunday & Monday, then again Tuesday(18) & Wednesday(19). For the last 3 days my breast have been really tender, white bumps started to show, they feel heavier, looks like they grew a cup bigger, & also can see some very blue veins! & still no af as of now.

[mdawn21]

I also took a hcg yesterday morning & was bfn! Is it still to early??? Don't want to give up hope just yet

[mdawn21]

All day today I have been feeling very bloated & my back has been hurting!

[pokeyAC]

Can you get a blood test?  That might be more conclusive.

[mdawn21]

Don't want to do a blood test right away. This is my first time, although I know all women are different, I'm just trying to hear other sides of the story's, like similar to mine that would help me.