Out of curiousity, how many of you make financial considerations a major part of deciding on having more kids? We are debating #3, but many of our choices, including driving compact cars, would have to be re-thought. Not to mention tuition, possibly wanting a larger home, and so on. Most older folks I know advise against limiting family due to money, but lots of young families I know feel they have to.
We actually came very close to having my husband have a vasectomy, so we are not a couple who has always wanted a bigger family. It's just that when looking at the pile of baby things we're thinking of giving away . . .