My husband hates our arrangement and won't sleep in the bed most nights and we are starting to feel a lot of resentment towards each other ( and sadly, I think he feels it towards my daughter). I have tried to convince him to buy a bigger bed ( we have a queen) and put old bed in guest bedroom so if we sleep seperately we can all sleep in a bed. We are a one income household and he doesn't want to spend the money. I used some money I had received for Christmas to buy an air mattress for me and baby to sleep on in guest bedroom but then read that was a no no ( husband wont sleep on air mattress, refuses). He also does not want to help me with gentle sleep training to get the baby in her crib and I am too exhausted to do it alone after caring for baby all day and night and cleaning and cooking.
Any ideas ? I'm afraid we are going to get a divorce if we don't get something worked out. Thank you.