1. The obvious being that I have invest 6 years of my life into a relationship with this man and now this. How am I supposed to handle this?
2. I have fertility issues and my dr. Has said that conceiving will already be hard enough for me...so the idea of ending it with the man I love and then not being able to conceive later with someone else breaks my heart.
3. This is kind of the kicker in my head. I was recently talking to my boyfriends little sister who said she doesnt want children either, and for the same reasons as her brother! They both feel that once you have children you can no longer be yourself and any goals you had for life are instantly moot. I can't help but think these feelings aboit parenthood come from thier parents. Dont get me wrong...my boyfriends parents are fantastic people I just feel like somewhere along the line they both got the wrong nessage about parenting.
Please help me! Thank you all so much!