I am dangerously close to "crossing over" at 8 weeks. I know I shouldn't be. My first problem is that I've gained weight since I got married last year, and NONE of my late spring/summer clothes fit me right now, but that's not all of it. I've always had TINY hips, like only 5 inches larger than my waist, but now not even elastic waist skirts fit over them, it's bad!!! And I'm sorry, but the belly has grown. As if to prove the point, I've actually lost 5 lbs since I got preggers, but my waist and hips are bigger. I spent 45 minutes this morning trying to figure out what I was going to wear to work!!!!!! All this and I'm trying really hard to keep it a secret at work until 13 weeks. I did fortunately buy a few things that are maternity but don't look maternity, and I have 2 dresses and 2 pairs of pants that still fit me, but I'm going to be wearing the same 5 outfits every week for the next 5 weeks. At home I go around in maternity clothes because they're just more comfortable. This is my first baby, but I'm really short, so maybe that's why, I don't know. My mom swears she didn't show until she was 7 months with her first and she's shorter than I am.