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post #41 of 68
Yes go ahead Banana. I am about to. Congratulations to those in their second trimester. Yah for seeing baby and mw/obs.
So I haven't been here much as I nearly died Sunday before last. I was doing some stretches my chiropractor had given me for my hip pain when I realized that my left leg was swollen and discoloured. So that night I tried elevating the leg which helped with the swelling but not the colour. So I took myself to the ER to find that I had a clot from my ankle beyond what they could see in my groin. The doctor also believed I had emboli in my lungs but didn't feel the need with my pregnancy to confirm with ct. Was started on a heparin drip right away. So last tues I had surgery with a general anesthetic to remove some of the clot, put a filter in my vena cava to prevent other clots traveling to my lungs and also a shunt was placed in my vein to prevent collapse. I have something called May Thurner syndrome where when pregnant your main hip artery compresses the vein there and causes clots.
It wasn't until Wednesday that I got an ultrasound which showed baby still moving and a heartbeat of 162.
The pain I now have in my calf is horrible and I need a walker to get around. My sleep has been terrible with the pain. I get short of breath easily and so dizzy/faint if I stand for more than a few minutes.
I need to take blood thinners until after babies birth. So have risked out of the birth centre. Which makes me sad too, I am going today to have my first in office visit with my ob. I believe they are doing another ultrasound as well, which is good.
I am praying that all the doctors had to do to save my life will not have affected my child's.
post #42 of 68

Oh Storm, that must have been terrifying! hug.gif  I'm glad you got some reassurance from the u/s at least.  I hope your OB visit goes well today.  I will be sending good thoughts and prayers to you and your baby. praying.gif

post #43 of 68
Oh, no, Stormikris! That sounds so scary. I'm glad that you were attentive enough to seek medical help. I hope your pain eases up soon, and I look forward to hearing updates about your baby.
post #44 of 68
OMG how terrifying Stormi! That procedure is scary enough on its own, but with baby on board- I can't imagine! I'm glad you got the treatment you needed in time and hope you will continue to hear/see a strong heartbeat and a healthy baby.

Is this likely to happen in any future pregnancies? Oh Stormi! I'm just so thankful you're alive!
post #45 of 68
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Oh, no, Stormikris! That sounds so scary. I'm glad that you were attentive enough to seek medical help. I hope your pain eases up soon, and I look forward to hearing updates about your baby.

 

Yes this, how scary!  I wish you a speedy recovery from the immediate effects and hope baby is doing fine!

post #46 of 68
Ever feel like you are having a really hard time and getting no support? Today is a bad day. My nausea has been pretty constant but generally tolerable for the past week or so. Today it ramped up and I am miserable and trying so hard to put on a happy face at work. To top it off my boyfriend accuses me this morning of exaggerating when I hesitate to kiss him bc I feel like I'm about to puke. Seriously? I try and explain that he has no idea what it's like, but there is no sympathy there greensad.gif I guess it's not too big of an issue compared to other things, it's just hard when we haven't told anyone yet and I haven't one else to talk to about things. Sorry for the rant ladies...just wanted to get this out...
post #47 of 68
Stormi- that is completely frightening and I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. What do the OBs say all this means for your baby? Will you be able to get around without assistance when you have healed from the surgery? As far as the surgery and pain meds, etc. lots of pregnant moms have to undergo procedures for one thing or another. For all my distrust of modern medicine when it comes to maternity care, we have gotten really good at preforming necessary surgery in a minimally invasive way. That's a good thing! Your u/s sounds positive as well!

Sorry you feel unsupported, BK. My problems Mainly revolve around DH too. I'm really mad and we aren't speaking. Maybe it feels a bigger problem than it is because it's compounded by distance. But when you're not in the same space, there is less incentive to work it out. And since it started about communication, that makes communication about it hard. Between my hormones, and feeling ill, and spending the week with his self-centered parents, and being expected to take care of his $h!t, and taking care of the kids and house- I want to throttle him every time I see him post pictures of fondue, or see him tagged in post about having "absinthe and cheese for lunch, isn't it great here..." I'm really happy that he has time for so much fun. I don't think it's unreasonable for me to expect that he take some of that time to call me. We had talked once since he left 2 weeks ago, until we fought when I called him out in it.

He's actually a really good spouse when he is here, which i'm sure is part if why he is mad too. He doesn't think he deserves my anger, and he also (i think) doesnt understand that he is really bad at long distance communication. I have a pretty low tolerance for BS, which is fine most of the time, because there is none from him. But it makes me inflexible, obviously, since I have no intention of mending this myself. I don't know what to do, I can't imagine things are to go well if we just spend the next 4 months not speaking, but I just can't not be angry and upset right now. I've tried greensad.gif
post #48 of 68
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Well I didn't know to take your advice until I was frantically staring into the refrigerator! Have 3 made up for tonight though.

I'd eat one now, but I didn't keep anything down from dinner. I am having a hard time sleeping, despite being tired though.

I typically rate throwing up right down there with death of things I like to do. But I guess I'm starting to get used to it. That's sad. I hate it, it scares me, and I cry about half the time, but it's starting to just be...

Wow, even I feel super sorry for me now!

You can eat any kind of complete protein and it will do the same as an egg.  I just like that they are easy.  I don't think I'd ever get used to being sick.  And I really hate that smiley that throws up.  I wish I could ban that smiley!!!

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Ever feel like you are having a really hard time and getting no support? Today is a bad day. My nausea has been pretty constant but generally tolerable for the past week or so. Today it ramped up and I am miserable and trying so hard to put on a happy face at work. To top it off my boyfriend accuses me this morning of exaggerating when I hesitate to kiss him bc I feel like I'm about to puke. Seriously? I try and explain that he has no idea what it's like, but there is no sympathy there greensad.gif I guess it's not too big of an issue compared to other things, it's just hard when we haven't told anyone yet and I haven't one else to talk to about things. Sorry for the rant ladies...just wanted to get this out...

My DH got upset too when I felt like I was going to puke when he kissed me.  I dislike it when they take stuff like that personally.  greensad.gif

 

Bananas - I hope it gets better for you soon.  hug2.gif

 

Stormi - That is super scary and I'm glad you and the babe are ok.  The lady that puts together our local playgroup has the same issue.  She had 3 kids and a blood clot in her lung with the last one.  No fun.

post #49 of 68

Welcome, elated! Yay for no nausea but boo for having horrible headaches. I had some while pregnant with DD and it was hard to get through. Are you able to do anything to help? Massage? Aromatherapy? Acupuncture?

 

coffeebean, sounds fun :) My appointment is next week - Tuesday. I think they said our entire appointment would be about an hour. They do the scan and then right after I meet with a genetic counsellor who gives us the results of the scan and blood tests. Last time we had it done it was all good and our risk was very, very low for any issues. I'm hoping for the same this time...

 

banana, you won't bring us down! Please share! And I do hope you start feeling better soon.

 

Storm: Yikes!! What a terrible experience! I hope you are healing well and that you don't have to go through that again. The u/s looked fine after...that's good, do you they have to do any more monitoring of the baby?

 

BK, big hugs to you.

 

 

Afm: I'm 12 weeks today. I know that's a big milestone but my anxiety is actually growing as I get closer to my u/s next week. I keep imagining that we don't see a heart beat or that there are terrible problems and we have to terminate. I'm trying to relax but I just have moments where I freak out.

post #50 of 68

Wow, I am so sorry so many of you are having such a difficult time. Stormikris that is so frightening and I am so glad you are ok and that the baby seems to be fine too.

 

Not a whole lot going on here. I am 10 weeks tomorrow which is usually when I start to feel better but I was nauseous and tired again tonight so who knows. I seem to be one of the few mamas here without an early ultrasound or a doppler heartbeat yet. We haven't tried either but in a couple of weeks they will do the doppler for the heartbeat since I will be almost 12 weeks. It will be nice to hear!

post #51 of 68
Thread Starter 

I got my sequenom results back and baby is Rh positive. So "Rogain" as my husband calls it for me.

Cold is still dragging me down. Full of snot and throwing up because of it.

post #52 of 68
We all have colds too greensad.gif
post #53 of 68
Leigh, that's a bummer! And all the trisomies okay? Did they ask you if you wanted to know the sex?

Storm, that sounds really scary. I hope from now on things go more smoothly!

We are finally mostly recovered from colds here. I have had a cough for a month!
post #54 of 68
I think Leigh took the test by Sequenom that tests for the baby's blood type. Sequenom has several tests that are offered.
post #55 of 68
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I think Leigh took the test by Sequenom that tests for the baby's blood type. Sequenom has several tests that are offered.


Oh, right, thanks for the clarification, coffeebean!

post #56 of 68
Thread Starter 

I did not check the trisomies, just blood type. They 'predicted' gender, but we will not find out.

post #57 of 68

I didn't know you could test baby's blood. I am Rh- and we declined Rhogam with my DD but then tested her after she was born. Since she was +, I got a pp dose. I figured I would do the same this time around but now that I could test for the baby, maybe I will consider that. I will ask my mw about it. Interesting! 

post #58 of 68
There are a lot of threads about Rhogam on MDC. You should do a search, you'll find a ton of info. The issue would be for this babe, as if you are sensitized from the mixing of your blood and the first rh+ baby's blood, your body could attack a subsequent rh- fetus and cause harm.

Well this day sucks so far. I'm still not speaking to dh, everyone is sick, the baby is puking, and I'm stuck in the rocker with her and very hungry greensad.gif
post #59 of 68
Thank you ladies, one day at a time. craftyOnce you have a clot you are very susceptible to additional ones. Because of my syndrome it would be very likely to happen again. We only wanted 2 kids so I will not be getting pregnant again. If this had happened with the first one I am sure DS would be an only child too.
banana I will be seeing the high risk perinatalogist now because of all this. At this point they can't tell any affect to baby but I will be followed closely. I am hoping that once this clot finally clears up then I will be able to get around without my walker. Sorry you're not talking with hubby. We had that same issue because I was lazy when I couldn't walk and the house was falling apart. Hopefully you two can talk it out.
carmen because I am seeing the perinatalogist they will do more frequent ultrasounds etc to ensure baby is healthy.
I appreciate all your thoughts and well wishes. So yesterday was only an ultrasound baby was just hanging out sleeping I guess what a cute little profile. Hb was 153. Measuring still a couple days ahead. So 13w2d I think it said. So that is good that growth hasn't slowed at all. Tech said if she were to guess she would say its a boy but we will wait to be sure. So next Wednesday I will have the hour long meet with the ob.
I hope you all that are sick get to feeling better soon.
post #60 of 68
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Sorry you're not talking with hubby. We had that same issue because I was lazy when I couldn't walk and the house was falling apart.

Was this before or after you found out about the life threatening clot disorder?! Because if it was after, I think there will be some angry letters from your DDC sisters!!!

I tried to go to bed with kids tonight, since I'm sick too, but I just had to get up to eat. How lame is that?!

I'm going to try again *yawn*
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