My mom died when I was 12. I have a step mom. My daughter is 3 and calls her grandma. I call her by her first name. On a recent visit my daughter said "Mom you have to call your mom MOM!". I just agreed and went on and didn't say anything. I didn't want my daughter to say to her grandma "You are not my mom's mom".
So ideas on when and what to say?
*Is this the right thread?