My 15 yo stepson, who lives with mom m-f, had a friend sleepover this weekend. Sat it was a balmy 40 deg and I decided we ALL needed to get out of the house so I suggested a day in the canyon. We spent hours there and the guys (my hubby inc) tracked and hunted each other while I waled our dogs and played with the baby.
we had an great day.
Well sunday I actually begged my hubby to feed the baby breakfast because I was so exhausted. I slept the two extra hours and it was his naptime and I ended up nursing him to sleep and getting another hour. yea for sundays!
I get up and it looks like a bomb went off in the livingroom where the boys played video games all night. then all of a sudden my husband says the friend needs to go home. ok, well he has them do NOTHING to clean up, I was going to go with them for the ride and I told all of them that it wasn't fair. there needed to be accountibility in the house. I decided not to go so I could get the house back in order. I'm glad it was an hour and a half trip to get them home and back because I was sooo mad. Like mad to the point where I wanted to tell him to look for a place so he and the boy could do whatever they wanted to.