post #141 of 141
2/23/13 at 1:37pm

Getting over an affair is possible, and accepting your husband's child would be possible too. The problem is your husband. He is refusing to help you, refusing to tell you about the child or his affair. He is acting like you should just get over this and he doesn't need to do anything to help you through the process. Well, he's wrong, and ultimately, his lack of compassion for your feelings may be what ends this for you guys.