I'm expecting my second and some friends have asked me what all I need. I am getting a new infant seat because I didn't love the Graco Snugride (getting a Chicco Keyfit this time), but other than that, I don't think I need anything. I loooove luxurious baby items, but I only buy exactly what I'll use and I don't like a lot of waste or stuff in my house.
I cloth-diapered with my first, so I'm set there. He wore his size Small fuzzibunz so long (to 18 mos until medium fit!) that I may need to replace a few, but won't need to right away. I am thinking of getting a few more pre-folds (I had 24, but some have wandered). That's basically all I used until DS was about 3 mos. I may buy a few Goodmama newborns because they're irresistably cute and soft.I also have a ton of cloth wipes/wash cloths, which I use for everything.
So many wonderful friends made us beautiful knit and crochet blankets, so plenty of those as well as my favorite Aden &Anais cotton ones that are lightweight for summer and easy to wash.
I guess if I am having a girl, I might get some girl clothes, but I have some gender-neutral newborn stuff.
What are you planning to buy/get/make? Have you gotten anything so far? What might I be forgetting?