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post #41 of 80

I didn't have much in the way of morning sickness with ESP (sweet 6 year old son with special needs).  This pregancy has been wall to wall morning sickness.  It is starting to ease a bit with some stretches of near normal during the day, but last night I didn't only made it to the kitchen sink (and not the further away bathroom) before bringing up dinner.  

 

Does anyone else have a patern of m/s where it got better and then worse again?

 

Is anyone else of Advance Maternal Age? (I am 45 and was expecting menopause, not to be expecting - though after the initial shock am now overjoyed.)

post #42 of 80

I hate the phrase "advanced maternal age" but yes, I guess I would fall into that category. I turned 42 in December so I was technically 41 when I got pregnant. I got pregnant with DD when I was 38 and gave birth at 39. I certainly don't feel "advanced" in terms of age winky.gif

post #43 of 80
I'm AMA too. 38 when I deliver.

I have good days and bad with the MS. My days are actually ok. It's my evenings that kill me.
post #44 of 80

I am AMA but don't feel like I am. ;)  Was 38 for DS and am 41 for this one.
 

post #45 of 80

I found a heartbeat at 9 weeks 2 days which I know is very early. But it was there and it was undoubtedly baby. I counted my heartbeats first and my rate was under 100 a minute. Then this little thumper was 150 and soft and perfect and wonderful. I felt so much better afterwards and me and DH were just beaming. I know exposing baby to too many ultrasounds waves is not good, but this was only for a minute and it was worth it to me. I am so happy we have a doppler. 

post #46 of 80
Hippie, congratulations on finding it! From my reading, doppler waves are nowhere near the intensity of ultrasound machine waves. I've been using my doppler since 9.5 weeks (13.5 now) and it's helped a LOT with my anxiety. I still need to check about every other day, though. Hopefully I'll wean off it soon!
post #47 of 80
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Hippie, congratulations on finding it! From my reading, doppler waves are nowhere near the intensity of ultrasound machine waves. I've been using my doppler since 9.5 weeks (13.5 now) and it's helped a LOT with my anxiety. I still need to check about every other day, though. Hopefully I'll wean off it soon!

That's interesting because my last OB said the opposite was true.  Maybe if there is no sound.  I'll have to ask this OB and see what he says.  Now I'm curious.  Hmmm...

post #48 of 80
Quickie post...my screening results and u/s went really well today. Apparently I have "a great looking baby" and everything is "perfectly normal"....no recommendations for further testing at this point smile.gif
post #49 of 80
Awesome news, Carmen!!! What a relief!
post #50 of 80
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That's interesting because my last OB said the opposite was true.  Maybe if there is no sound.  I'll have to ask this OB and see what he says.  Now I'm curious.  Hmmm...
Now I'm curious, too! And worried...
post #51 of 80

If anyone is looking to buy maternity clothing, I am completely in love with this skirt I'm wearing for the first time today:

 

http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=42441&vid=1&pid=366125002

 

It is soooo comfortable and still looks sorta "fancy".  Plus I think I'll be able to wear it post-partum and beyond (if it holds up of course).  I might have to buy a gray one too...

 

Glad your scan went well, Carmen!

post #52 of 80

It has taken me a bit to get used to AMA (Advanced MAternal Age).  I was AMA with my son, ESP, but it was never a thing. Now at 45, I have been sent to a speicalist in high risk pregnancies.  Trying not to let that freak me out.  I wanted more than one child but my husband and I decided that it was not in the cards for us; since we are already pretty extended with ESP's special needs. We are thrilled now that the shock has passed.  Finances are the big worry since we have to plan to take care of Elijah for his life but we still feel blessed.

post #53 of 80

I can't believe you lucky ladies are able to find a heartbeat so early! My doc tried yesterday and couldn't pick anything up :( I thought for sure she would since I'm 11 weeks, but I guess not. Before she tried, she told me it may be too early to find the heartbeat, but I am still bummed...

post #54 of 80
Banana, Crunchy
post #55 of 80
The Doppler thing, try not to be too worried about Carmen. It has to with the mhz. 3mhz dopplers are better for finding the HB early in pregnancy, and 2mhz are better for later pregnancy and during labor. 2mhz are also supposed to more effective for very large mamas.

Trans vag are like 5mhz

So it really just depends in the equipment, when you will get the best results from a particular doppler.
post #56 of 80
Bleach! What I meant to say was, Banana, CrunchyMama, and mama_b, thank you so much for the tips/pep talk about homeschooling. We're still not 100% sure what we're going to do, but I'm feeling better about the whole thing. Thank you!!!

One more thing on schooling, though. I just was filling out the application for another private school and DH had this sad look, so I asked him what was up. He responded that he was feeling "like a fool" because if we only had the two guys (our sons), we would be able to afford to send them to this school, which DH really likes. But with three, we can't (without financial aid). I'm gad that he's being honest, and I understand his fears, but gee whiz, not someone that a pregnant lady really wants to hear, you know? So I'm left feeling sort of crummy. I know it's normal, and we all have fears when we're bringing a new life into the world and that it will "all look better in the morning" (thank you, Downton Abbey), but it does make me sad right now,

So, in other news, I had a weird thing happen the other day. Twice over the past week, I've needed to pee and could not pee. I just couldn't go. So I called the Ob, who said that this sometimes happens. It's not super common, but apparently sometimes the uterus pushes on the urethra, effectively blocking the pee. He said if it gets really bad, I may need to either wear a catheter or learn to self-catheterize myself. How awesome would that be? Not!!! smile.gif. The good news is that it usually resolves by like 13 weeks. I'm just hoping it doesn't happen again!

Carmen, awesome news about the ultrasound!

And, for whoever was asking (tough to look back on the iPad - last time I did, I almost deleted my whole post!), I'm also AMA. Will be 36 when this one gets here. I'm not sure whether it's that or being at an Ob after having a midwife the last time, but there has been a lot more talk about potential amnio than I ever had before. Not loving that. Hopefully that concern will all be put to bed after my NT scan next week.
post #57 of 80
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MCSFobwvQTg

Just did this prenatal yoga routine on YouTube and it was really nice. I think it would be good for beginners if you're looking for something not too complicated or advanced. I feel so relaxed now!
post #58 of 80

I'm confused on the heartbeat thing.  This is my first and I went the IVF route so things may be a little different, but the clinic saw the heartbeat on my first RE visit after confirming the pregnancy, at about five weeks.  Then when I had my first OB appointment at 8 weeks we actually HEARD the heartbeat loud and clear.  So I was surprised that 9 weeks is early to hear one, and that one might not be heard at 11 weeks.  Can anyone explain what's happening? 

post #59 of 80
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Originally Posted by mellybelly View Post

So, in other news, I had a weird thing happen the other day. Twice over the past week, I've needed to pee and could not pee. I just couldn't go. So I called the Ob, who said that this sometimes happens. It's not super common, but apparently sometimes the uterus pushes on the urethra, effectively blocking the pee. He said if it gets really bad, I may need to either wear a catheter or learn to self-catheterize myself. How awesome would that be? Not!!! smile.gif. The good news is that it usually resolves by like 13 weeks. I'm just hoping it doesn't happen again!


That is so frustrating!  I haven't had it to that extent, but I do find it more difficult to pee when pregnant.  What I have found helps a lot is changing my position.  The best is if I put my feet up, like on a Squatty Potty (although I use my son's potty chair) which is close to a squat position, then pee comes right out (also works great for pooping).  If I don't have something available to put my feet up on then I try to lean forward and that helps.  Have you tried different positions for peeing?

 

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I'm confused on the heartbeat thing.  This is my first and I went the IVF route so things may be a little different, but the clinic saw the heartbeat on my first RE visit after confirming the pregnancy, at about five weeks.  Then when I had my first OB appointment at 8 weeks we actually HEARD the heartbeat loud and clear.  So I was surprised that 9 weeks is early to hear one, and that one might not be heard at 11 weeks.  Can anyone explain what's happening? 

 

Well there are different technologies involved.  Usually the really early heartbeats are found by transvaginal ultrasound, and later on abdominal ultrasound.  To just listen to the heartbeat a doppler is usually used (which doesn't work until a little later), and there are different types of dopplers, or a fetoscope (like a stethoscope) can be used.  In addition, baby's position, baby's movement, and mom's anatomy (amount of body fat, position of placenta, etc.) can affect the quality of the results.

post #60 of 80
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Originally Posted by greentoubab View Post

I'm confused on the heartbeat thing.  This is my first and I went the IVF route so things may be a little different, but the clinic saw the heartbeat on my first RE visit after confirming the pregnancy, at about five weeks.  Then when I had my first OB appointment at 8 weeks we actually HEARD the heartbeat loud and clear.  So I was surprised that 9 weeks is early to hear one, and that one might not be heard at 11 weeks.  Can anyone explain what's happening? 

I believe 12 weeks on average is when many can hear it for the first time. It depends on size of mom, where the placenta is, where baby is. 8 weeks is early! you are lucky!

 

 

I don't know which has more waves--doppler or u/s--but I think seeing as u/s take way longer than one minute, the exposure would be more with them. Of course I am just thinking out loud and have no basis for this. But one minute with a doppler verses 15+ for an u/s doing measurements and looking around and such? Seems that a doppler would have less effect. 

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