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Pregnancy pillow and SPD

post #1 of 11
Thread Starter 

Hi mamas,

 

I had horrible SPD during my last pregnancy (Symphisis Pubis Dysfunction). I never splurged and got a really nice pillow but instead used a cheap, plain old body pillow that was worn down by the end. This pregnancy, I'm already starting to experience a lot of pain in my groin and pelvis. :( I'm trying to keep it from getting worse and have decided to splurge on a fancy pregnancy pillow. Any recommendations? I'm hoping someone out there has also dealt with SPD and can help....

 

My pelvis separated from the last birth and just before getting pregnant again I was finally feeling better (toddler is 21 months). I'm feeling quite discouraged the the pain is already back and I'm only 7 weeks along... :(

post #2 of 11

Sounds like yours was worse than mine as mine was resolved after birth each time, but I have had it the second half of both pregnancies and anticipate it again this time. Chiropractic was significant for me to find relief. Have you considered that? You need to find one who knows what they're doing with this pain. That, combined with proper movement at home to avoid aggravating it really helped me get through.  Finding a webster certified chiro is good, but not required if the chiro otherwise is pretty experienced treating pregnant women. I went to one here in Seattle first, and it helped a little (she was webster). But another one I found through the ICAN group was amazing, and I'll return to her this time if/when I need it.

 

I've wondered if my weak pelvic floor and weak core have contributed to it, and am hoping to feel it a little less this time since I have strengthened my glutes since last pregnancy and I've also worked on healing my abdominal separation some as well.

 

For chiropractic, I'd go once a week or every 10 days. I'd have been in so much pain if I didn't go.

post #3 of 11
Thread Starter 

Thanks for the info! I actually tried chiro with no success. What has helped the most has been acupuncture, so am doing that as often as I can. Did you use a pregnancy pillow that helped? I remember nights were miserable trying to get comfortable in bed and I was in excruciating pain when I tried to turn around. 

 

Anyone recommend a pillow? I see lots of brands out there: Boppy, Leachco...

 

Thanks, mamas! :)

post #4 of 11

Sorry to hear about your pain, and that it's starting so soon.

 

I used a Snoogle pillow and I don't think I would have survived without it last pregnancy. I had sciatic pain and it helped a lot. But I don't know that I'd recommend it as a top quality pillow. I'm curious about what others say too.

post #5 of 11

My setup at night was one or two rolled up towels to place between my thighs to keep my alignment straight. I pinned the towel shut so it wouldn't get unwound day after day, and I think I even put a pillowcase around it to keep it rolled up.  A pillow was too soft. I also put a small pillow under my belly (lying on my side of course) and also hugged one. I woke up without pain that way.

post #6 of 11

I had really horrible spd with my 3rd baby.  It continued to get worse though the pregnancy, inspite of the fact that I was seeing my chiro 1-2 x a week toward the end.  She finally threw up her hands and told me that my pain would likely resolve itself after delivery.  She reminded me, once again, that lower backache is very common in pregnancy.  I was telling her, I know, I've had two other pregnancies and this isn't lower backache, it's hip pain.  It was to the point that I could only sleep in the recliner, as it hurt to bad to try and get out of bed or roll over, it was very painful to walk stairs, and trying to step into the vehicle to drive was difficult.  Walking wasn't much fun either.  When I was 40wks and no sign of baby coming, I decided to try accupuncture.  The woman that I lucked into going to was also a certified Webster chiro.  I figured it couldn't hurt to get adjusted as well, and between 40 wks to 42 1/2 weeks when I delivered my son (the accupuncture to induce my labor clearly didn't work), I actually had a little relief.  I could tell that her adjustments were helping.  It ended up taking 4 monthes pp before I was feeling mostly normal, I continued with adjustments with the Webster technique chiro, as well as doing exercises that she gave me.  I was one year postpartum before I had no pain most of the time.  Suddenly, when I was about 21 monthes pp, I started having the hip pain again.  It felt like it had when it started in my third pregnancy (it started at about six monthes in).  I took a test and sure enough, I was 4 wks pregnant.  I was so scared.  I thought, if the pain is starting this early, this is going to be horrible.  I went into my webster chiro and she assured me that by keeping everything in line I would do much better.  I went to her every few weeks and also to a massage therapist throughout that pregnancy.  I also got a pregnancy pillow that I used toward the end.  I got through that pregnancy with very minimal pain, nothing at all like the third.  With my fifth I also went to the chiro throughout, did not do the massage therapist and didn't use the pillow (but did use a small pillow between my knees and tried to keep my pelvis in line), but practiced yoga the whole time.  I had even less pain.  Now I'm pregnant w/ # 6 and plan to do the same as I did w/ #5.  The one thing I realized is that not all chiro's are equally skilled.  My first chiro couldn't even begin to help my pain, but my second was like a miracle worker.  Good luck to you, I hope you find something that works and you can keep the spd at bay this time. 

post #7 of 11
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Originally Posted by mamaw/two View Post

The one thing I realized is that not all chiro's are equally skilled.  My first chiro couldn't even begin to help my pain, but my second was like a miracle worker.  Good luck to you, I hope you find something that works and you can keep the spd at bay this time. 


 

I really agree with this. One has to find a chiro who knows what they're doing, and sometimes it's hard to find one!  That was true in my case with three total chiropractors. That one who kept me "straight" is the one I'll be going back to this spring. Seemed to start around 23-26 weeks for me.

post #8 of 11
Thread Starter 

Thanks everyone for all of your feedback. Hopefully I'll be able to keep it mild this time around. I just ordered what looks like a freakin' awesome pillow: http://www.amazon.com/Todays-Mom-Comfort-Pregnancy-Pillow/dp/B001A0M3LI/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1360095621&sr=8-3&keywords=total+mom+pregnancy+pillow. It was pretty spendy but I have a feeling it's going to be a lifesaver!

post #9 of 11
I've seen that one! It looks amazing. Let us know how it is. I think my DH would complain about the huge barrier between us though.
post #10 of 11

How's the pillow working out for you?
 

post #11 of 11
Thread Starter 

Oh man, the pillow is Sooooooooo comfortable! My husband is totally jealous. I'm sure I will still have trouble sleeping once I'm in the third trimester but I suspect it will be way more comfortable. I'm already sleeping so much better. If anyone is on the fence I totally recommend it!!!

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