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harmie0515 
Banana, how are things going at home? Have they settled some with the hubs?
Also, You were in my dream last night. Or at least a lovely woman with a pregnant belly in a banana suit. So I assume it was supposed to be you? Have you ever worked as a bank teller (while wearing a banana costume?)
LOL! I have never done either!
Things are better. We could not come to some kind of conclusion about it. Everytime we'd start conversing electronically about it, it would end in arguing. There is a disconnect that we can't put together. I think I am expecting too much from him. He has apologized many times over, but I wanted more than that. I wanted him to admit that he acted in the ways I said. Not just admit it, but recognize that it's true, actually believe that he was bad at communication in this type of circumstance. I don't know if he does. And we just can't talk about it while he's gone. Maybe we will when he gets back.
But even if he isn't giving me what would make everything "right" in my mind, he has completely 100% changed his communication efforts with me. He calls everyday, unless I tell him not to. And he's determined about it. He'll email me, or call my phone, or use every possible electronic service that I have to get a hold of me when he wants to try to talk to me. it's like he's trying to make sure I can never accuse him of being bad at long distance communication again XD
I've felt the same things before and after BMs, so I didn't figure that was the case.
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