I do want him to be happy and have his opportunity. But I also really like my little life right now. Just enough work time and home time... I'm home by 3 everyday and I only work 4 days a week. My off day is flexible, too. So I get to spend a ton of time at home with the kids. And go to the school. I'm a whiny baby.
I don't think you're a whiny baby at all. I think it's super important to have involved parents- especially at such a young age as Jasper. I think your schedule sounds perfect right now. Can you talk to your dh about getting a part time job? Maybe there is something simple to acquire that could potentially help with his business? Connections, discounts, etc.? That way his time at a part time job wouldn't be totally taken away from his new business. I don't know... I don't think it's entirely fair for him to dictate how this goes for you guys if you're currently happy, why does his happiness take priority? I don't want to stir things up for you, but it sounds like you really don't want to work full time and I'm just wondering if there is a middle ground. ((HUGS))