I need some GD advice for my 8 year old. Within the past 3 months or so I feel as if our relationship has struggled. The backtalk in my house is at an all-time high. Everything we say to her always has a response. We seem to make her angry (along with her 6.5 year old sister) pretty much all the time. I understand we all live together and people can get frustrated with each other, but what bothers me is the way she talks to me (and her Dad). Rolling of the eyes, huffing, slouching, backtalk, just generally disrespectful. I am not a yeller, and I don't believe that taking things away from her/punishing her for her behavior works (we have tried taking some privileges away in the past, only to have the behavior continue). I have explained that it's ok to be upset with me, but it's the way she tells me she's upset that bothers me. I'm looking for suggestions to help us out? Wondering if at this point more responsibility on her end might help, etc. I've heard from her "I wouldn't be angry if you and Dad would just do what I want!"... She's my oldest, and to be honest I expected this behavior more towards her teenage years. She is a compassionate, kind, friendly child, the only time I see this behavior is with her Dad and myself. I just want to be able to enjoy our days together more, with less conflict. Any ideas would be appreciated.