Do you want to trade No-Cry sleep support?
We did this with our first. I was really stressed out about what I thought sleep should be. It took a long, mostly worked, and took a LOT of work. I am totally opposed to any CIO so I guess that is a plus.
With my second I just coslept until age 2 and it was a LOT easier to just submit. Sleep was easier all around, certainly less stressful, and transitions weren't a big deal.