I am still in shock and adapting to the idea of a new normal. :
Any pointers or tips appreciated!
Congratulations! There is a lot of good info. archived here :-)
The best advice I can give thus far (my girls are 4 months) is to try to enjoy the positives of each stage and try not to stress over the challenging moments of each stage. There will always be both, and in the long run,they are over before you know it and you are on to the next thing. <3