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post #41 of 78
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Originally Posted by Madefromscratch View Post

Ha!  I need to go get some wine . . . every time I've thought about it while out, I feel like everyone is watching the pregnant lady walk down the liquor aisle and I lose my nerve.  Time to let go!
 


I never let that bother me! I actually have a bottle of my favorite up in the cabinet, but I didn't want to waste a whole bottle for only one small glass. So I just had a glass from a (decent, actually) box wine we had from a gathering a while back. I'll save the good stuff for when baby is sleeping longer periods and I can have a few glasses!
post #42 of 78
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Originally Posted by CamoShades View Post


I never let that bother me! I actually have a bottle of my favorite up in the cabinet, but I didn't want to waste a whole bottle for only one small glass. So I just had a glass from a (decent, actually) box wine we had from a gathering a while back. I'll save the good stuff for when baby is sleeping longer periods and I can have a few glasses!

hehe- i never let it bother me either.  my husband drinks beer and wine either most weekends, and sometimes in the evenings, and i shop even when pregnant.  i figure anyone can judge me if they want, or they can ask, i don't really care.

 

a bottle of tequila MIGHT make me uncomfortable.  i did take husband and got him a nice bottle of bourbon for christmas- those guys in the liquor store were really nice to me- i think b/c i was hugely pregnant and very very cheerful about their cute little european style liquor store.  apparently chirpy pregnant women commenting on how nice, clean, attractive and well-organized their store is and pleasant to shop is appreciated!  the jars of moonshine were really funny!

 

bota box and black box are both good boxed wines.  especially if you're not gonna use a whole bottle, they're great for a half glass here or there.  in-laws were just in town and they were all sharing the black box for the week of nightly Scrabble games.....  i'm dry for the foreseeable future though.

post #43 of 78
Thread Starter 

For some reason I felt better buying beer/wine at Target with other stuff. That way I was just picking up supplies for the house instead of buying only liquor from a liquor store. I know you can't do this in all states, though. I'm also a fan of Bota Box! Target brand boxed wine is decent too and good for cooking if you ever cook with wine.

post #44 of 78
Hey typebug, camo, and others, you're not alone - I'm 41 weeks today too. I'm having the hardest time keeping my spirits up. I feel like I will never go into labor and can just see the impending c section. Not entirely rational of course, but I am terrified of being risked out of my mw practice and my home birth. greensad.gif

You ladies' positive attitudes are inspiring - maybe I need some wine tonight too.
post #45 of 78
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I had a glass of wine a few nights in a row before I went into labor! My MW said it was cool. Definitely helped me relax and not be in the worst mood. Sending labor vibes to all the 41 weekers!!!

post #46 of 78

I tried so many things to kick start labour before it happened for me and I'd say the thing I did differently was to relax and took a night off from thinking about it. The night before my water broke, DH and I dtd then I took a nice long bath with lavender essential oil where I kept a warm hand towel on my breasts and belly.

post #47 of 78
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Originally Posted by Dia View Post

Hey typebug, camo, and others, you're not alone - I'm 41 weeks today too. I'm having the hardest time keeping my spirits up. I feel like I will never go into labor and can just see the impending c section. Not entirely rational of course, but I am terrified of being risked out of my mw practice and my home birth. greensad.gif

Dia, I'm struggling with those feelings too!  So I'm speaking to myself as much as you when I say "Have faith"!  Has your midwife checked you yet to see if there is progress?  Mine did last week and it definitely boosted my spirits and gave me a little more faith in my body, since she was able to feel that things were softening up in there and dilating a bit.

 

When do you get "risked out", and what happens after that?

post #48 of 78
Dia- Don't let me fool you. I may have come across all positive, but I'm not, really. I am discouraged bigtime.

I am "official" for this "club" now -- 41w today, 41w5d based on LMP. I am SO glad I fought my OB on my dates early on; I told her I would need the extra five days in the end, and I was right. I would hate to be facing decision time in two days knowing I really wasn't even 42 weeks yet. My brother's birthday is tomorrow and my niece's (DH's sister's kid) birthday is Thursday, so those are the two days I don't want to have this baby (ESPECIALLY on a cousin's birthday). That said, I will probably end up having him or her one of those two days, because that is the kind of luck I have. greensad.gif
post #49 of 78
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Originally Posted by Madefromscratch View Post

Dia, I'm struggling with those feelings too!  So I'm speaking to myself as much as you when I say "Have faith"!  Has your midwife checked you yet to see if there is progress?  Mine did last week and it definitely boosted my spirits and gave me a little more faith in my body, since she was able to feel that things were softening up in there and dilating a bit.

When do you get "risked out", and what happens after that?

I think that at 42 weeks I'm risked out of my home birth, but I'm not sure how transfer of care works. I haven't explicitly asked but I guess now is the time.
post #50 of 78
HUGS camoshades and madefromscratch. This can't last forever, right!? I'm right there with you both.

I feel a little more positive today after a stretch of about 4 hours last night, 130am to 5am of regular, patterned, strong contractions. They have stopped now, but I'm hopeful this means they'll pick up later, or at least that I'm dilating. No other real signs of labor (show, etc).
post #51 of 78
Today is 41 weeks 3 days.

I had a few contractions yesterday, enough to make me think things might happen, then I got sidetracked by a sick little one and everything stopped. Today I've had all of two contractions. Grrrrr. So ready to meet this little guy.
post #52 of 78
Any babies? Anybody? Bueller? Come on, babies!!!

I'm off to my NST, regular appointment and fluid check ultrasound today. Let the interventions begin. greensad.gif I will admit that I'm pretty nervous, especially for the AFI. I will report back in later this afternoon. My AFI is at 2:15 CST.
post #53 of 78
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Good luck CamoShades!

post #54 of 78
Everything went well today! The NST was good, and the fluid was at 11, which is the highest measurement I've ever seen for me at the end of a pregnancy. smile.gif

My OB called tonight, and we scheduled an induction for next Wednesday night, which will be 42w1d. She isn't on call next week, but her office partner is (it's a really large practice with about 25 OBs in offices all around the city, so you never know who you're going to get), and she is willing to induce instead of just automatically doing a c-section. I'm glad she was able to get someone on board with her way of thinking. I asked about the foley bulb, but I was 3cm at today's appointment, and she said it really wouldn't pay. My next choice is AROM, and then possibly low-dose pitocin if that doesn't do anything. I normally wouldn't want AROM because of that whole ticking clock thing, but this would be a "now or never" induction, you know? Baby will have to come out then. I have two more NSTs before then, though -- one on Saturday in triage at the hospital, and one on Monday back in my doctor's office. I do have to say that I am really happy with what we discussed today; I really do think my OB is pretty cool for an OB, even though I wish I could be seeing a midwife instead!

Anyway, I had my membranes stripped today, and I am going for another round of acupuncture tomorrow. I do pray that today's talk is just "what ifs" and that I'll go into labor on my own before then.
post #55 of 78
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Anyway, I had my membranes stripped today, and I am going for another round of acupuncture tomorrow. I do pray that today's talk is just "what ifs" and that I'll go into labor on my own before then.

I am praying and sending you good vibes that that baby will decide it is time.  So happy to hear that the NST and everything is good and that they are being patient with you and baby.  

post #56 of 78

Had my baby!  Just wanted to post here to say I went to 42 weeks and baby was fine (there was a tiny, about 1 cm area of calcification on the placenta, but apparently nothing serious).  A couple hours after my last post (on the 4th) we did a membrane sweep and my midwife stretched me a bit while she was at it, then I took castor oil and a tincture of cotton root for a couple hours after.  It seemed like nothing was happening, and then contractions kicked in about 12 am (yes, accompanied by wicked diarrhea), water broke at 6, and baby was born at 8:30!

 

All that to say . . . we'll never know if it was any of those things, or if baby was just ready!  I like to think he was just open to encouragement.  :)  Have hope, mamas.  I'll pray that things go well for you!
 

post #57 of 78
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Congratulations Madefromscratch!! Hope you're enjoying your new little one.

 

Any news CamoShades? Thinking about you.

post #58 of 78

Hurray Madefromscratch!  can't wait to hear more.  

post #59 of 78
Congrats, madefromscratch!

Still pregnant.
post #60 of 78
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Originally Posted by CamoShades View Post

Congrats, madefromscratch!

Still pregnant.

I feel ya! Me too.
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