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My update

post #1 of 23
Thread Starter 
Sorry I haven't been on here much. I had a medical setback. As some of you may remember I had a blood clot from my groin to ankle on my left side that I had surgery on jan 15th. In the surgery they removed some clot and placed a filter to prevent any of the clot going to my lungs. The ER doc had guessed that I had a pulmonary embolism but did not want to subject me to the ct while pregnant. I had stayed in the hospital for 6 days. I went home and slowly began to feel worse. The 6th day at home I passed out lost consciousness and all that. The ambulance took me back into hospital due to my low blood pressure. Turns out my body had a reaction to the blood thinner I was on and I required 2 more units of blood. My platelets were critically low as well as my hemoglobin. I was having horrible back and side of my abdomen pain. The ER doctor did a ct this time which did show a clot in my lung. A Vascular ultrasound a day later showed a clot in my right upper leg. Basically from the filter located at my stomach level down my abdominal veins were full of clots. I remained in hospital for over two weeks on bed rest. It was horrible. They took me off the heparin and started me on another blood thinner which the effect on baby is unknown. While in the hospital we also had to determine whether we would terminate this pregnancy.
Obviously because of all this I have risked out of the birth centre. Baby will be induced early so that doctors are better able to control the situation. Blood thinners will need to be stopped prior to birth. At this point we are moving ahead with the pregnancy.
Just praying the ct and meds don't affect the baby. That I don't produce any more clots especially around the birth when the risk is greatest.
I am feeling stronger everyday. I am 16w5d today and I feel baby shifting around daily which I love. Still need to take zofran everyday on waking or I spend the day throwing up :/ one day at a time.
post #2 of 23

Oh my goodness!  Very scary!  Glad you are getting the proper help!  I hope everything turns out ok for you and the baby!hug2.gif

post #3 of 23

Oh my goodness, I'm sure I can speak for many of us who will continue to keep you and baby in our thoughts!  grouphug.gif

post #4 of 23

Oh my, Storm, that is horrible! It is so wrenching to have to make decisions to save your own life that could affect baby! I hope and pray that everything turns out all right for all of you. I know it must be very difficult for everyone. Is your partner being supportive?
 

post #5 of 23
Stormikris, what an ordeal! I am sending positive thoughts for your continued recovery.
post #6 of 23
Stormi, that's so much to deal with! It must be very hard to do so. You sound so calm and confident about it all. It's a amazing to read that kind of strength. I am so happy to hear that you are feeling better every day, though. And we will definitely be thinking of you two and hoping for health and wellness for you both.

Please keep us updated!
post #7 of 23

Stormi, that sounds horrible and incredibly stressful.  I don't know how you are able to deal with it all, I'm amazed at your strength.  Will be thinking of and praying for you and your baby. hug.gif

post #8 of 23

Whoops, duplicate post.

post #9 of 23

Wow, you've been through so much! I hope you have an uneventful rest of the pregnancy and that you and baby are fine hug2.gif

post #10 of 23

I wondered how thing were going.  How rotten!  Prayers coming your way.  What a blessing to have feel the baby moving to comfort your soul. :)

post #11 of 23

Wow, what a journey. You and baby are in my thoughts and prayers!

post #12 of 23
Holy cow, Stormi! How scary! You will be in my thoughts.
post #13 of 23

Praying for you and your baby.  

 

I am waiting to hear whether we have a potential problem with this baby.  Blood in amniotic fluid, hopefully not from the placenta. I am not in the hospital but basically on bed rest unitl we know if the blood is mine or from the placenta.

 

Thank you so much for sharing your story.  And again, I will pray for the best for you and yours.

post #14 of 23
Oh my goodness, Stormi! Let me echo everyone else who has chimed in and express my admiration for your courage and strength during what must be a tremendously painful time, both physically and emotionally. How brave you are! I will be thinking of you and your family and praying for positive, safe outcomes for all. So very sorry for your suffering. hug.gif
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post #16 of 23
Stormi--so sorry you are going through so much. You are in my thoughts.
post #17 of 23
Thread Starter 
Thank you all. I have had some time so have developed strength, but know there were times I was a complete mess while in hospital. My brother in law (DH cousin whom his mom raised) was shot in a drive-by and killed, he was 18. So my stepmom flew down to watch DS while DH went to the funeral. This was the worst because DS doesn't know anyone as well as DH and I having lived overseas all his life and far from family. So really he was crying lots and is just now getting back to his usual polite and fun self.
I appreciate all the thoughts and prayers. We will be doing the materniT21 so hopefully won't be faced with any immediate decisions.
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Originally Posted by ESPMadre View Post

I am waiting to hear whether we have a potential problem with this baby.
When will you find out? Praying for the best for you.
post #18 of 23

Oh no, how awful...  Man, when it rains it pours...  I hope things start getting better for you guys ASAP!

post #19 of 23

Hopefully, I will find out in about 7 days when the report from the cell growth part of the amnio comes back.  It may be as long as 2 weeks but the doctor thought it would be on the earlier side. I am on partial bed-rest until we know.  

 

How horrible to have a death in the family at this time (or any other of course) but to have that be due to random violence just makes it so much worse.  Grieving is so stressful and the last thing your family needs. I hope you are finding some solace somewhere in your life and that things get easier for you as your journey continues.

 

Abrazos/Hugs

post #20 of 23

Oh Stormi hug2.gif's to you.  What a ride you've been on.  I was thinking about you as well since we hadn't heard anything.  We will all be thinking of you when it gets closer to you giving birth.  I hope its very uneventful.

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