I was wondering if anyone else was or has experience with differeing ideas with their family/friends regarding pregnancy/birth. My husband and I are planning an unassisted home birth and going the rest of my pregnancy unassisted also (I'm 34 weeks), but out of all our family and friends we are the only ones who believe in this kind of birth and are feeling a bit of tension from everyone when the subject of "where are you birthing" or "when's your next appointment" comes up.
I really believe in UP/UC and know that its the right thing for me and my family and could defend it, but in all honesty, i just want to avoid all arguments. It slipped out to a friend that we were planning a UC and they flipped out and we had a big argument with tons of tension, we moved past it, but I really want to avoid another argument.
I know that not all of you are into this kind of birth, but do you have any experiences with dissagreing with family and how to avoid arguments on differing ideas?