DH and I have 3 wonderful children (4.5, 2.5 and 2 weeks) and before DS was born, I was satisfied being done....
Now, I can't imagine this being the end for us. I don't know if it is the postpartum hormones or if I really want to have another baby. I know there is no rush (while I am getting older and am 34 next week) and we can decide later, but DH wants to have a birth control option in place by 3 months (although, fertility never returned for me until 15-20 months postpartum). He seems to want to have the vasectomy scheduled soon... YIIKES.
I should add that whenever I talk about it, he says it is not a good time to talk... but he doesn't get upset or anything when I say I want another, or at least the option. It seems like he is not COMPLETELY closed to the idea, but 95% sure he is done.
What do you think, will the desire pass, or will I forever be sad that we didn't have another?