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Hmmm that's weird, I tried to submit a post but it says it must be reviewed by a moderator. Fortunately I copied it beforehand...

 

Firstly, thank you all for the support. I may get a lawyer involved, I am not sure yet.

 

I just asked my 9 year old if he was feeling down at all or anything recently about his circumcision. He actually said he feels a lot better about it. He admited that he showed it to a girl at school, as she was very curious about it and wanted to see it. He said that she said it looked 'adorable' and that it 'looks really cool', and that it made him feel a lot better about his circumcision. I certainly don't approve of him showing it to girls at this point, but at least he isn't having any confidence or self esteem problems as a result of the circumcision.

To be honest, even though they have had a lot removed, things could have gone worse with the circumcisions. Aesthetically, for circumcisions, I must admit, they have healed nicely. Their scars are mostly symmetric, and they haven't had any adhesions, or skin bridge etc. They also have not suffered from painful during erections after healing. Obviously, I wish this had never happened... but, now that we're stuck with it, at least the circumcisions turned out looking reasonably well.

Up until recently, I was getting both boys to apply lotion from their circumcision scars to the tips of their penises. My rational was that it would help prevent them from drying out, and losing sensitivity. I think keeping that sensitivity is why they kept being bothered by their genitals rubbing in underwear.
 
I just asked them about it, after asking them to stop doing it about a couple weeks ago, and already they are finding there is less irritation.

Maybe my ex was right -- maybe I was overreacting... I just don't know what to think.

 

Honestly...your 9 yr old showing his penis for no real reason to a girl at school because "she" was curious and then you saying maybe you were over reacting is making me think this is not real. Sorry if it is, but something seems fishy to me.

post #22 of 28
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Honestly...your 9 yr old showing his penis for no real reason to a girl at school because "she" was curious and then you saying maybe you were over reacting is making me think this is not real. Sorry if it is, but something seems fishy to me.

 

I had similar thoughts when I read the description that was given on the girls reaction and  how she described the circumcisions, this is exactly how the Jake Wasketts and Brian J. Morriss of the internet sound when they go around posing as women or sometimes (much less common) actual women that are part of one of the fetish groups out there. Once you have spent enough time studying them they are easy to spot and it is truly astounding just how common they are, much more so than many may believe.

 

This is the internet, anyone can come through and post anything, we give the best advice we can because even if an original post may be fabricated there could be individuals out there that are actually in this type of situation and are unsure of how to move forward.

 

Good work though in causing everyone to do a double take,  you have a good eye and the skepticism required to take on the circumcision industry.

 

If this is real than I hope she takes are advice and if it isn't, which I am now suspecting that it is not real, hopefully the information provided is able to help someone that may actually be going through a situation similar to this.

 

This website provides more information on this, if there is anyone here that has not seen it before.http://circleaks.org/index.php?title=Main_Page

post #23 of 28

I have seen many 9 year old girls and their reactions to boys.  They would not ask to see a boys penis, let alone make comments about it being cute, etc.  At that age, girls and boys think the other has cooties.  Even if that did happen, a 9 yr old boy pulling his penis out in the middle of school is not boys being boys.  If you really think that happened, you need to address this with the school.  If this girl goes home and says your son pulled out his penis to show her, there will be hell to pay.  You need to teach your son that this is unacceptable, circ'd or intact.   

post #24 of 28

I would agree that "Julia's" made some word choices and expressed some ideas about children's penises that seem very much like a circumfetishist posing as a mother. This "mother" doesn't blink at her boy exposing himself to a girl in school. She mentions everyone judges the cut penis aesthetically superior. And what I thought was the worst, she told her sons to massage oil on their penises. She doesn't seem like any real mother, does she? At least we caught him/her this time. More often people believe these guy's are honest.

 

As Mitchell said, whether or not this person is real, this unfortunate scenario exists. If there's no medical clause in a custody agreement, it would only take one parent's permission to cut (and the doctor only needs one parent). This is a very strong case for being sure to ask for a medical agreement clause in any custody agreement specifically (if ever in that unfortunate position).

post #25 of 28
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Originally Posted by Julia05 View Post

My sons are 5 and 9. It sounds like legally, consent from only one parent is needed. The doctor is also saying that they had phimosis (which is bullshit, considering it's normal for the foreskin to not retract at their ages), and that circumcision was the best option.

Your poor babies...I am so very sorry!
post #26 of 28
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Firstly, thank you all for the support. I may consider getting a lawyer... I'll have to think more on it.
 
I just asked my 9 year old if he was feeling down at all or anything recently about his circumcision. He actually said he feels a lot better about it. He admited that he showed it to a girl at school, as she was very curious about it and wanted to see it. He said that she said it looked 'adorable' and that it 'looks really cool', and that it made him feel a lot better about his circumcision. I certainly don't approve of him showing it to girls at this point, but at least he isn't having any confidence or self esteem problems as a result of the circumcision.
 
To be honest, even though they have had a lot removed, things could have gone worse with the circumcisions. Aesthetically, for circumcisions, I must admit, they have healed nicely. Their scars are mostly symmetric, and they haven't had any adhesions, or skin bridge etc. They also have not suffered from painful during erections after healing. Obviously, I wish this had never happened... but, now that we're stuck with it, at least the circumcisions turned out looking reasonably well.

Up until recently, I was getting both boys to apply lotion from their circumcision scars to the tips of their penises. My rational was that it would help prevent them from drying out, and losing sensitivity. I think keeping that sensitivity is why they kept being bothered by their genitals rubbing in underwear.
 
I just asked them about it, after asking them to stop doing it about a couple weeks ago, and already they are finding there is less irritation.

Maybe my ex was right -- maybe I was over reacting -- I'm just really not sure at this point.

Truthfully, it looks to me like you don't care enough. If this was ever done to any of my children I would turn into the scariest person you could imagine. I am feeling really unimpressed with your response and your lack of doing anything about a situation that is incredibly monstrous that involves your children's well-being. You may consider getting a lawyer? I cannot believe this is even in question. Im shocked actually. 

post #27 of 28

Im also disgusted that you are not more concerned about your 9 year old showing his penis to someone at school. That in itself needs serious parental attention. Is this really real?

post #28 of 28

I am locking this thread as it seems to have run its course.

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