Dd1 got a "big girl bed" when she was 2. She'd been sleeping in her own room since around 10-11 months. Dd2 started sleeping in a normal bed when she was 2. It was the bottom of that Ikea bunk where you can actually have the mattress on the floor, though. Also, she continued to sleep with me most of the time until she was 5. Jasper will be in our bed until he is at least 3. We don't have any more rooms. Eventually, we may try to give him his own sleeping space in our room. It will be a while, though. He is definitely not independent... I've had an independent kid. Jasper is the opposite.
We got him a potty today. He is terrified to get near it. Sounds about right.
Sara, I saw that about the boys earlier. Sorry! Hope they adjust quickly!