SO not interested in sex after baby...
I found men horrifying during pregnancy, including my husband. They smelled awful. I honestly wanted to axe-murder any male within 5 feet of me the whole time.
My Little Miss is 17 months old, and we've just started to get our groove back. My husband, the sweet old goat, doesn't care for pity sex. Even without a bad tear, things can still be extremely uncomfortable. Be sure to communicate. A foot to the face does nicely.
And like mamazee said, it's hormonal. It will get better, but you do need to prioritize your marriage and your husband in other, more do-able ways, and you do need to keep sexual activity on your radar. I have been working hard to get back to where I was pre-baby, in terms of body and libido. My drive was never very strong anyway, and I have had to realize that unless I'm thinking about sex and making sure I keep sex on my radar, I'm the sort to simply decide that I've had a child, my job is done, my sex-having days are over. And it's OK to be this kind of person, but it's probably not OK to have your husband married to this kind of person. Keep trying, and it will get better.
And make sure there aren't other resentment issues holding you back. I found postpartum that even the most minor of annoyances with DH (often not justified) would fizzle anything out immediately. Make sure he is helping and supporting you how you need so that you can feel positive toward him.
Just wanted to chime in with a ME TOO. It is hormonal. I had zero libido from DS's birth to when we weaned (15 months). Then, I was totally into it! And....pregnant a month later. Oh dear.
I also had zero libido while on the pill, which defeated the purpose. I don't have any advice, just...you're not alone, and it does end.
My DH knows when he's getting pity sex, and doesn't like it...so we muddle through, and try to accept that this is just a weird little phase in our (hopefully) long life together.
Another vote for normal. Baby #3 is now 8 weeks old and I know, for me, all I can do is wait it out. Getting AF back did change things with my first two...right now, the thought of DH coming anywhere near my boob, and I mean anywhere, is enough to squick me out. Poor guy. It's really weird to go from pregnant with crazy sex dreams all the time to zero interest. I didn't fully have interest again until I was done BF'ing my first two. My boobs are just way too painful/sensitive right now. It takes time, but it will get back to being fun.