Thanks for the new thread and question, serafina and revolting. I agree with the others that you should feel free to stay, serafina!
The care provider question can get me a little nervous but I am trying to stay calm about it. Where I am living now we are using the local ob/gyn practice that was recommended by my general doctor. They use a method where you rotate through meeting with each of the obs and midwives in the practice during the pregnancy, so you don't just pick one doctor. They seem nice enough and again, come well recommended. The thing is.... we're moving. We're going back home to an area I know well, and I know women who highly recommend a midwifery practice in our town. I just don't know yet when we are moving - could be anywhere from mid-second trimester to early-third trimester. So the process of establishing a relationship with the practice mid-pregnancy and managing that transition has me a little anxious. I think I'll feel better once we have a moving date and can start making some arrangements. The goal is to be moved by the end of August at the absolute latest.
Tomorrow is our first real appointment with our midwife. Two weeks ago we had an ultrasound but we just met with the tech, no appointment. So I'm looking forward to actually getting to talk to someone. Not sure if they will want to do another ultrasound or not. We'll be 10 weeks on Wed.