How's everyone doing in that department?
anyone having sex yet?
what kind of things are you using to help with healing?
I didn't tear this time, so I've actually been feeling fine for a while. I did have an abrasion on the labia but that's healed up fine as far as I can tell. My hemorrhoids were the worst but they've also healed up.
I had still been spotting up until a couple days ago, I'm 6weeks pp today. So, since all was feeling fine, we dtd last night and I could feel a little tear or something inside. It wasn't too bad and everything else felt fine, no aching or other soreness. But the tear ended up bleeding some afterwards and I looked and saw it in the back, like near the perineum but inside a little bit. I guess just from things still being sensitive in there?? Doesn't hurt when I pee or wipe. I don't think this is where my abrasion was (mw said labia but honestly I didn't look at it). Oh, and we definitely weren't having any kind of rough sex, used coconut oil for extra lube.
Any ideas what I can do in there to help heal it? Aside from waiting of course.