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post #21 of 24

Your husband is abusive. I think it is time to start thinking if you want to live like that and your other children not jsut your son. Also start documenting this stuff. like the ride thing and the making you seem crazy thing. Everything you posted here are huge huge red flags. Get the book "Why does he do that"
 

post #22 of 24
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I know you are right....I have been writing down the incidents over the past 6 months or so and did write down the conference incident also. Also when I visited the women's center they documented everything I told them. My son's friend's mom told me she told my son he needed to speak with a counselor at school, too, so they would know what was happening and there would be further documentation. I just worry that because it has been mostly emotional type abuse and threats, that it would never be taken very seriously and that no one would do anything about it.

 

I need to get that book, but I guess I will either have to look for it at the library or buy it at a store, as I don't want to get it online-I am afraid he might see that I got it...

 

Do you think he would be able to take my daughter away-like in court? I am so afraid of him trying to do that....I have never been through a custody hearing or anything like that before...

post #23 of 24
If you are her primary care giver i doubt it. The super power of abusive men is that they make us doubt our selves but most people can see through it after a few encounters with the person. Those women shelters and so on have such great resources. Also judges see it a million times. They are pretty good also. I think he will he allowed to have visitation. But also document anytime he threatens to take her from you if yourbcan get it in text or email or reccorded that is awesome because they really frown on that behavior. I am so sorry you are going through this.
post #24 of 24
I just finished reading your story. I hope things are moving in a positive direction- do you have any updates? Hugs for you and your family!
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