This may be a bit of a spinoff of the genetics thread.
DH and I would were categorized as gifted as children. I haven't been concerned about my kids, the oldest is 3.5. After a conversation with a family member, I'm a bit worried that I may be doing them a disservice by not expecting that they are gifted.
We've moved recently, and we're still in the process of finding a more permanent home, which includes looking at public schools.
I assumed it's too soon for an evaluation because she's too young. I don't really have a concrete question. I guess, should I wait for giftedness to become an issue in DD's schooling? Or should I expect her to be gifted and plan on homeschool or private school, which would affect where we buy our house? Or as my title says, should I assume my kids are/will be gifted for the sake of life planning?