My nearly 4 yo son Aiden began SCREAMING yesterday when he urinates. He has had balooning the past few months from what I've glimpsed here and there. I went right to the walk-in-clinic and the doctor said his urine text came back fine, not a UTI or bladder infection. Upon inspection, pulled back a little bit of the meatus skin not retracted, the doctor said the foreskin looks tight, go to a urologist, looks like he'll need to be circumcised anyway. I'm terrified the urologist will retract and push for circumcision and would rather avoid waling into a trap. He prescribed a numbing ointment.
How can I help my son feel better?