What are you ladies thinking? I don't want to, for a variety of reasons. We found out with the first, but I'd like a little more surprise this time. I also don't like the enormous emphasis on sex. I don't care at all if its a boy or a girl, and the sex of a baby is, really, irrelevant to who it is. I know that it's one of the few things we can find out, which is a big reason why we do, but I feel like I want to resist defining this baby by sex from the get go.
DH, on the other hand, really wants to find out. It helped make the whole thing real for him last time, and it will probably help him bond. It also does away with the whole pronoun issue, which can be awkward. It would never work to have DH find out and not me, though.
So, I'm completely torn. What are you ladies doing?