I would like to ask how anyone pays for a HB cash out? My new midwife wants a $500 retainer to lock me in for oct. she said she has nobody else that is due in Oct. but we don't have the money or the $4000 to pay her. My husband is going back to college to collect his 9/11 VA bill money so we can pay her every month. But that wont start until June and the money wont start coming in till July. We are waiting for the college to accept some military paper work and then he has to do some taxes for his college.
I dont work out of the house or in the home, i also do not drive. I home school my two oldest and have a 3 year old. I am not crafty or bake. So i cant make money off any of that. Child care is another no no. I been on care.com for over a year and nobody hires me or there is no Parent/mom in my city that will drop off their child and pick them up. As i don't drive, i also don't have CPR knowledge etc.
I'm trying to figure out what to do. DH makes good amount of money but our bills and finances are more then he gets paid. we have a ton of stuff to pay off and no where near able to find $500. We just found out we need a new battery for the car and its over $100 or more. My mother in law owes us $200 but i don't know when she will be able to pay the rest back. I don't know what to do, DH is pissed, stressed and all he talks about is how i should just deliver at a hospital so his insurance pays for it and $4500 is too much for a home birth. That he can deliver the baby himself ugh.
I ran out of ideas :( I don't know where to come up with the $500! I don't have any none sentimental jewelry to sell, i don;t have any gently used clothes either to sell. If anyone has any other ideas then what i mentioned i would like to read about it.
Thanks for reading my Rant.