I hope someone can put my mind at rest on this subject. My daughter is 4 years old and seems to have a major dislike of boys for no apparent reason. She's a major girly girl (despite me hoping to avoid it), and she will only play with her female friends, despite the fact she has grown up around both girls and boys. But she refuses to have anything to do with her male friends and will only play with girls and likes doing girl things.
The problem is I'm 20 weeks pregnant with a boy, and of course she is really not happy about this. She has said that her Aunt has to push him back in when I have him, and that he has to live with someone else. I'm hoping it's just a phase she'll grow out of, but I'm worried that she will hate him when he's born and refuse to have anything to do with him. I'm also dreading the likelihood of jealousy.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? I would love to hear experiences, or get some advice on the subject.