To sum it up, he just seems very limp and lifeless. Almost like he's completely disconnected from the world. He doesn't use his arms, they just lay limp on his sides. He won't make eye contact no matter what I try to do. She has said that he still can't pick his head up when laying on his tummy. When holding him he just kinda flopped his head around and then rested it against my chest. No batting at toys or anything. Also, I'm not sure if this could be related but he all of a sudden just started to freak out, screaming so much that he could barely catch his breath. Nothing could calm him down until his Dad took him in the other room and I think he just wore himself out (it lasted about an hour) from screaming so much. We tried rocking, walking, sitting, standing, holding him in different positions, giving him a bottle, absolutely everything. They said it never happens but by the way they reacted it felt like a normal occurrence for them.
Some background on her and her pregnancy, she had him about 3 weeks premature. I know she got prenatal care from an early start. She had also told us that she smoked pot ' a couple of times' while pregnant.
I just don't know if I'm thinking too much into this and he'll develop on his own schedule or if this is cause for alarm. Any input is really appreciated.