Fearing the worst
Oh my god mama. I'm getting chills reading this and I wish I knew the right thing to say, and I'm sure I don't. I'm really hoping you are wrong and baby is fine. I got into a right panic a few times in my first pregnancy because quite frankly, I didn't know what to expect. But you've been through this before, so you'd know more then anyone. I am a strong believer in mama intuition but I am sending a TON of hugs and positive thoughts your way. Keep us posted.
aoifesmiles - Did you mention in another thread that you had an anterior placenta? I ask because I am 20 weeks with my third and I will go a few days without feeling strong movements (or anything definitively baby)
I understand your previous experience may add complicating factors to your concerns, if it was due to something that might repeat in the future, but if it was just a freak thing with your stillborn baby, I wouldn't necessarily think that going a day or two without feeling movement (with an anterior placenta) would be that big of an issue currently. Of course, if it settles your mind to go to the midwife (it would for me!) definitely do it!