I know this isn't exactly fair, but it's my belief that the woman decides whether you are done with children or not. Haha. If she does not want more: it's her body, which kind of makes it her decision. If she does: well she may try be supportive and agree, but I think when a woman wants a baby eventually one is going to show up.
100%Mom - One of my very favorite names for a boy is Jasper. But my husband has said absolutely not, even though I have snuck it back on the list more than once. Oh well I tried!
Some others that feel old school to me:
Edwin (this may be my little guys middle name)