Where do you folks find decent bras for an 11-12 year old? I don't like or wear bras (a camisole or tank w/ shelf bra is as close as I get), but DD feels more comfortable w/ her new body development when wearing a bra. She's outgrown the "training" type bras, but is small statured & wouldn't fit in an adult sized bra yet, either. We went to Target last night & I was horrified by the options. Except for the training bras (which are just glorified tank tops, not what she prefers), they ALL had underwire & padding. Underwire is just totally unnecessary & the padding just seems to send the wrong message - hey, let's make your brand new breasts BIGGER so you get MORE adult-type attention that you're not emotionally ready for! We found ONE without an underwire & w/ removable padding, but it's not great fitting since it's designed to be worn w/ the padding.
Anyhow, any suggestions?