My husband, son and I are moving to our IL's farm in a few weeks just to have some more space with our new baby, we'll be renting our place out.
They dont have much interest (thankfully) in watching me give birth and say they'll be outside with their horses. My mom mentioned to me that she feels homebirths are family events (lol, what?) and feels a bit left out because I'm having my baby at their house and understandibly they'll get to see baby first. I dont think she understands that my IL's aren't going to be watching..
I'm leaning towards having as few 'spectators' as possible, and we don't always get along so having my mom come concerns me a bit but I might consider it if she doesnt talk and doesnt look at my crotch when i'm giving birth
Who are you inviting? Would you invite your mom in this case?