We are so stuck on this and really don't know what to do. I am pregnant with our second who is due at the beginning of September, and my 4 year old is still in the cot bed sidecarred with our bed. We've been telling her that she needs to start sleeping in her own room for months now, but nothing we do will keep her in there. We've tried the idea of treating her for each night she does it, offered to stay in there until she falls asleep, and we have even told her she can sit in her bed and look at books, or sleep anywhere in her bedroom. We have completely run out of ideas. The problem is she doesn't want to sleep without us next to her, and hates the idea of being alone in her bedroom.
We really are struggling now, and the only idea we have left is to remove the cot bed and give her no choice. But there is still the issue that she would never stay in her room, never mind sleep in it. Any help would be wonderful, we are so stuck!