Almost two weeks ago we got to hear the baby's heartbeat. That was so wonderful and reassuring! Now the worries have started to creep back. Even though I haven't had any spotting or much cramping even, I'm worried. I had my first appointment with my midwife and am following up with my first appointment with an OB doc on the 24th--I couldn't get in sooner.
I'll be 13 weeks this Thursday and the plan was to tell family this weekend (aunts and uncles--parents and siblings already know)and then tell my work on Monday. Now I am wondering--should I wait until after my ob appointment to tell work? It's only another week and it might be safer. I'd then be 14 weeks.
We've already told close family members because we figured we'd tell them even if something went wrong. But my work--I would HATE to tell them and then have something go wrong.
Also, really frustrated that these random worries are coming out of nowhere. I thought I had that under control ...