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I'm so sorry for your loss! From one mama of a lost little one to another: it was not your fault! I felt like I did something wrong too and my midwife told me that there are so many women who do horrible things during pregnancy including CRACK COCAINE and the baby still survives! So please, please do not beat yourself up and also, allow yourself to grieve and heal in your own way and at your own pace. Please ignore anyone who tells you "move on" in any way if you are not ready.

Again, I am so so sorry and you are in my thoughts and prayers.