Love is great but love does not pay the rent.
This is just a reality of it.
I do not want to depend on any man ever for money because what what I see on the forums and real life it lead to unhealthy balance. I am sure some people have awesome families where mom stays home and man does not feel like he deserve a free pass on housework but I am yet to see it.
And what about divorce? death? disability?
Things happen and more often than people think.