Just had baby #2 and this time I would really like to have sex sooner than after baby #1 AND have it not hurt so much!
I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice for helping the healing (I had a few small-medium tears, stitches, lots of swelling) and for making the first few times not be so awfully painful.
A friend recommend vitamin E suppositories, so I've got those now. Obviously, lube is essential. Is there anything else I can do to make things heal better/faster and to make sex less painful? I'm actually dreading it this time because of my experience last time, but wanting to be proactive.