I have been ECing with my 15 month old since he was 10 months. And he has been diaper free during naps and at night since he turned 1.
It seems to me that as time goes by, he is peeing more and more at night.
When we first started at night (at 10 months), he seemed to hold on to his pee more and he would squirm a whole lot before peeing. So I would wake up, bring him to the bathtub (easier to aim for a boy than in a toilet)) and cue him. Over time, he also got into the habit of nursing as i would cue him at night.
So now, my issue is 2 sided:
1. (Still at night only) When I bring him to the bathtub and cue him, if I dont also give him the breast, he doesnt pee. And he fusses and cries. Until either I give him the bood, or I go back to bed with him and he pees in bed instants later.
2. He pees like 5-6 times throughout the night. Thats a lot more then when we first started ECing. I am personally exhausted. I havent had more than a 3 hours un-interupted sleep in months. When your baby is a newborn, it is expected... BUt ive been highly sleep deprived for the last 15 months (and more if you count the end of pregnancy) And it is now affecting my patience level in the daytime, when I deal with my son.
I need any advice you can give me.
I put a diaper on him last night. And then fell asleep with him while I was putting him down. So I got 8 hours of sleep. Somewhat non-interupted. He still nursed a few times, but I didnt have to get up to pee him.
This temporary solution was great for my beauty sleep, but I fear it will put us back on our Elimination Communication Bond.
So, what do you have to say, Ladies... Im all ears.