MIL only sees our other kids when we/he brings them over. She has nothing to do with them except for holidays and birthdays. Hubbys not particularly close to her.
Hubby and I had a new baby girl 2 weeks ago.
MIL refused to come see her because I didnt give her MIL's middle name.
(2 other grandkids have MIL's middle name..wont come here b/c I'm here.)
Hubby told MIL that he'd try to bring our baby to her house next weekend.
Im feeling betrayed. It feels like hubby is condoning his mothers nasty behavior against me.
Powerless. Hubby TOLD me he was going to bring my daughter over there, regardless of how I feel. I feel like he's choosing to honor her feelings over mine.
I know Im super emotional right now and that MIL in general is a very loaded topic between us. I cant help but feeling like, "If seeing baby is important enough to you, you need to suck up your feelings about me and come here to see her."
I wouldnt be bitchy to her, Id be just as civil as always.
Am I overreacting? Too emotional about this? Is it a smaller issue than it feels to me right now?