My twins are 12 weeks old and it is going wonderfully. I felt lucky to be having twins when we first found out and I feel luckier every day. People don't seem to get that someone could actually be happy about twins, though. I'm sure you've all experienced the celebrity of being out and about with multiples. Do the strangers who stop to comment on your twins say things like "You have your hands full", "How hard that must be!", etc?
My brother-in-law also has twins and at a family gathering yesterday some in-laws were commenting on how if they were trying to get pregnant, they wouldn't come around. They treat twins like a disease you might accidentally catch. I know they are just being "cute", but I'm honestly offended that they think having twins is a bad thing.
We went to a local twins get-together recently. Everyone kept coming over and saying "I can't believe you're here. We didn't leave the house for a year. How are you doing? Are you okay?" It felt like a PTSD-riddled support group for veterans.
Does anyone else ever get angry/tired/annoyed/offended by all of the negativity?