I'm writing this in a desperate attempt to get advice because I DO NOT WANT TO SEE AN OB/GYN OR GO TO THE HOSPITAL. With my first pregnancy I went to the ER and it was the worst experience of my life! Losing the baby was horrible, of course, but the mean and insenitive doctors made it 100 times more traumatic for me! It has taken me two years and im still not healed. Plus, they made multiple mistakes and performed a horrible d&c which left me a lot of complications.
Anyway, if I am miscarrying (which I know is most likely) I would like to do it in the comfort and peace of my home. My husband is here if there was any sort of emergency. I guess I am writing just to specifically know if that should be ok and what to look for. I know severe cramping can be a dangerous sign but other than that can I just wait and see??? I'll keep trying to get a hold of this midwife. Thank you in advance!