I am not asking for him to pay all costs, just half. Our daughters are in dance (they were in dance before the divorce, this is not new), and he has paid a total of $600 in 3 years. I have paid over $2800 just in tuition, not counting shoes, costumes, etc. We have other costs too...soccer, running, viola, swim, sailing. He pays nothing for these at all. He has now told me that he isn't paying me another penny toward extra-curriculars at all.
So I am just wondering if it is possible to take him to court to have this changed to 50-50, or if I am stuck paying 100% from now on? Anybody have experience with this?
For the record...I get child support and he believes the cost should come from that. I also work a very part time job (2 hours per day at the schools). He makes very good money.