Blanca78, I know what you mean, I always feel a little weird when people talk about how very, very sick they are or were when they were pregnant and I'm like... That's not me, hehe. I always word it as "I'm one of those weird super lucky pregnant women who never gets sick, really." My friend just told me one day when she was pregnant, she sipped water at work and barfed all over her keyboard. Poor thing!
The abstraction part IS weird. I was with friends who know I'm pregnant the other day, and it was all hot and summer-y feeling, and my friend's husband suggested we go to a taco place, and I seriously thought (in my head, luckily!) "Ooh, a beer!" And then remembered oh yeah, I'm pregnant, I can't have a beer!! lol!!
I have always been big on meditation and visualization. I haven't meditated all that much lately, but I have taken time pretty much daily to be like "hi baby!" and visualize what they're looking like in there, with the arms forming, and the other stuff the app on my phone describes, heheeh! It helps me feel mentally more pregnant, even if my body isn't showing too many signs. (The constipation lately has been my most prominent symptom and since that's been making me feel sick, I've felt more pregnant, but ugh, I'd prefer for that part to just get better immediately!!)
(Not trying to change the subject, but...) Can I ask what kind of fiction writing you do, Blanca? I love writing! I've never had any fiction published. I've written a few blurbs for newsletters at my zoo workplaces, but that's about it. Like I said, though, I really love writing. I even completed NaNoWriMo last year, though sometimes I feel pretty cheesey saying that, hehe. Do you write short stories? Novels? I tend to write snippets and scenes that I think I ought to turn into stories, but then usually never do. Anyway, just curious!