I have yet to officially pick out a doula as we just moved back to the States from Germany this week, so I will be attending a doula tea in a couple weeks so I can meet local doulas.
I am also stressing out because my MIL and SIL have invited themselves to visit at 36+ weeks pregnant...not giving me official dates up I have clearly stated I do to want visitors when I am in labor and want a few weeks to bond and make sure we have nursing down before we have visitors. I loved having that last time compared to having tons of people, around with my DD. They seem to want to go to Atlanta and stuff as well.... :/ I am terrified I will end up delivering at 37 weeks.
On top of all of that, in Germany I had a zillion u/s (standard practice) and the doc noticed baby has a dilated kidney...was sent to a specialist and he saw the same thing. Now I am terrified about surgery for baby, listening to docs push circ and even pushing for me to be induced. I have yet to even meet with an OB. :/