Also, I had an infection with my stitches, and I have already recovered I am surprised how soon I stopped bleeding as well, I don't even need to wear a liner anymore and I feel like myself again.
However, if you don't want to go, don't feel pressured to go. While I think you would be just fine traveling, you not wanting to go is enough reason not to. Or you not feeling comfortable traveling that soon. Everyone is different with what they feel comfortable with. You husband could go by himself if he really wanted to, but not over the holiday. He shouldn't miss the first christmas with you guys.
some posters suggested having his parents come to you- I also would not do that over the holiday. I would not want the pressure of providing a holiday meal and entertaining people that soon. That would stress me out more than traveling personally.